Just because we're in an era of dating, doesn't mean we should forget the magic of seeing a girl for the first time. You know the score, it's a movie time of "meet cute". When a couple meet, they see their romantic destiny played out in the stars. I will do the same. But if you don't know how to get close to her? Here’s a little info on how to talk to girls when you’re feeling lost for words.

How to Talk to Girls: The Basics

So how do you get closer to a girl you like when you have only litter understanding of her status. First, figure out what you want. Is this a relationship? Or just a date? Second, it's time to overcome your anxiety and fear of rejection. Remember, success doesn't come overnight. You may slip to the ground. But try to see these missteps as part of your journey to find someone special. We all make mistakes. We're just human beings (and so is the lady you want to talk to). Follow these simple steps and you will be on your way to meet-cute bliss in no time.

#1. Choose the right time

If she's with her family or a group of women, you might think this is not the best time. If she also sits on her laptop and concentrates on something in a coffee shop, she may be too busy to be disturbed.

The same goes for the gym. If she's got headphones on and running on the treadmill like a crazy woman, it's not the right time to get close to her. Choosing the right time has be the first, because if the timing is not right, the rest may collapse and burn.

#2. Remain optimistic

simply-put, negative people who rant and complain are not attractive. People are attracted by positive and optimistic people, so if what you say after the opening speech is some criticism of the barista, location, weather, etc., it is likely to discourage further conversation. You’re much better off at encouraging a conversation with this lucky lady by complimenting something around you both than being a grouch and railing against it.

#3. Make sure the conversation isn’t one-sided

Yes, you want to make a good impression on this lady, so you may want to spend some time talking about why you like your job, but what about her? Stop and ask her for advice every once in a while, or make sure you are also discovering hings about her. There's a reason you came up to her and talked to her. Be sure to understand your hunch that she’s a person you want to know better is right!

#4. Don’t interrogate her

If you really want to keep talking and you are nervous, you may fall into interrogation mode. You ask her questions rapid-fire: "where do you work? "Do you like it? "What do you like?" . give her some time to talk before you start asking another question.

So gentlemen, think about what you want. Remember, ladies are only human beings too. Take a risk to break the ice We promise it won’t hurt you!